I love that I can be comfortable in my own skin in the moment. To put it simply, I’m proud to be me.
In life, it can be a little tricky to be the one to say “I am” during a moment of discomfort. It can be easy to be the one to “take it in the gutter” when you realize that someone is doing something you might not have considered. The truth is, there often isn’t a lot of space to go around in public.
But there is a lot we can do to make the feeling of discomfort less uncomfortable. In a recent Ask Me Anything session with a bunch of internet commenters, I asked them all if they consider their bodies to be their own private sanctuary. Even though I know many people don’t like to think about it, they often feel they can’t avoid it.
The problem is that we often feel we can have an inner sanctum to ourselves where we feel comfortable, and while that is a good thing, there are some things that are simply not appropriate in public. For example, if youre sitting behind a desk and not talking to a customer, you might feel like you have to make eye contact. If youre in a crowd and not in conversation with anyone, it might be uncomfortable.
This is a good example of the two-sidedness of our feelings. If we’re not in contact with a customer, they might be annoyed at us for not giving out information. As a result, we may have some negative feelings. A friend of mine, who used to be a party-lovers, has a really bad habit of asking people who he works with to ask him some questions about his life. I’m not sure what he wanted, but he actually did get some answers.
The way it works is that a customer is usually at a customer service desk and we are the people being made to ask. The customer service guy might ask us some questions about our lives while we are in the middle of conversation. In this case, there was a lot of conversation happening. The guy wanted to know how long we have been working for him and if we are good at our jobs. We both had questions about our jobs and about ourselves. It was a very interesting conversation.
The customer service rep then asked the guy how many years he’s been working for and the guy told him 2 years, 2 weeks, 2 days. The customer service guy then asked the man if he’s had sex with a woman recently and the guy said he hasn’t.
We all have a few things in common. We all like talking about things that we’re passionate about, and we all want to find ways to make our lives better. There is a lot of conversation happening here, and we all want to move on from this conversation. The problem is that the conversation is turning into a fight, and it’s really, really hard to step out of it.
I can’t help but think that this is the type of story that would have been much better if it was written for men. Women are always trying to find ways to make their lives better, and I’m sure there are people out there who have the same problem. But men are just as likely to get angry about it. No matter how hard you try to convince them that they are wrong, they will always say, “Yeah, but I don’t think women like that.
Thats the thing though. In my experience with women, they dont really like it when men try to tell them they dont like it, even if they are right. They just take it as a personal attack. I think that women are very good at picking up on when you are wrong about something, and they will automatically defend you. I think this is a very common problem with women.